I grew up hearing
About place and time
Today, however,
So much is out of line.
In my late teens
If I quarrelled with Dad
That would be a slap,
Quarrelling was bad.
I was working then
I had a job,
Thinking about it now
Makes my head throb.
Sunday school was a must
You dare not ask,
Once it was Sunday
That was your task.
Sunday morning
And in the evening too,
It was Sunday school
For the entire crew.
We had home chores
That had to be done,
No excuses accepted
From daughter or son.
Wares to be washed
House to be swept,
Yard fire bright
Or lashes you’d get.
Home by a certain time
School or church,
From such instructions
Don’t dare shirk.
My favourite spot
Was the front step,
Any further than that
And I could be wet.
With permission sought
The limit was the gap,
Any infraction
Could incur a slap.
No favouritism
Among the siblings,
All had a bit
In what was sharing.
If one was out
His share was kept,
Another demand
That had to be met.
Quarrels were short
Disputes brief,
They were not condoned
By either chief.
Mother or Father
It did not matter,
Cross this line
And there was bother.
Training was at home
Learning at school,
One was not allowed
To grow up a fool.
School was a must
Licks like peas,
Two biscuits and milk
Without any cheese.
We could not chime in
When adults fret,
Another bad decision
We would regret.
Respect your elders
Always be polite,
Stay away from trouble
Definitely no fights.
No bare back
Or whistling at home,
Not in this house
You’re not yet grown.
Four fast asleep
In one single bed,
In many cases
Just front house and shed.
Kitchen and toilet
Out in the yard
And if it’s raining
Things could be hard.
Plant something
And let it grow,
In this way
The less you owe.
Games fee a penny,
Hard to come by
But it was a must
One dare not defy.
With your teachers
Do not mess
Whether at school
Or holiday recess.
Manners maketh man
We were often told,
Slip up at anytime
And licks you’d hold.
In a child’s back
You’d find his ears,
Beat the back
And the child will hear.
An oft-made remark
From a teacher I knew
But most back then
Held that view.
But things changed
Nothing so now,
How it got to this stage
I’ll tell you how.
The right to do
As everyone pleases
No matter who
That one squeezes.
A crime is only if
You get caught,
A few in jail
But outside a lot.
Different stokes
For different folks,
Once known standards
Are now jokes.
Roles are reversed
It’s like a curse,
In very deep waters
We are immersed.
How to get out?
Only God knows,
The fact we ignore Him
Causes these woes.
It’ll only get worse
Yes, this curse,
There’ll be no reverse
Till we put God first.
Stewart Russell © February 2019