One’s reality is what it is
Even though it is not
And if that person could really know
Perhaps, he would be shocked.
In reality,
Reality is a person’s reality
And this is the reality that person has
Though viewed subjectively.
Life is one’s perception:
Perception based on interpretation
Looking through one’s own lens
Coming to one’s conclusion.
And this is one’s reality
Which does not always conform
To what many people may consider
To be their subjective norm.
My reality may differ from yours
But it is mine nevertheless
And if it is working out for me
Then for me it is best.
My mother was on a bus
While sitting in her wheel chair
Safe and sound in a seniors’ home
And I was also there.
She was particularly alarmed
At how the driver was driving,
This was recklessly, to say the least,
And my mother wasn’t joking.
I calmly said to my mother,
“One thing I will ask you to do.
Wait till the bus stops before getting off,
That’s all I ask of you.”
Yes, I went along with her
Because it was her reality,
That’s how it seemed to her at that time
And she was not being funny.
In reality, her reality
Was that she was riding on a bus,
And she could not in reality understand
Why the driver was in such a rush.
This also holds for mad people
Or rather, the mentally insane,
But they should not be taken lightly-
They are not playing a game.
In reality, it’s their reality-
That is how it appears to them,
They need a secure and safe place
To help solve their problem.
But for every one of us
Whether considered sane or insane,
In reality, reality is our reality
Whatever we may claim.
Stewart Russell © May 29, 2023












